ye khani meri hi hai.hmyha apko apne baare m btane aaye hai.ki kese hm ek middle class family m or samaj m apne sapno ko lekar suffer kr rhe hai.baat ye hai ki samaj m ya to unke baare m baat ki jaati h jo success hai ya fir samaj un logo ke baare m baat krta hai jo ekdm garib ya apahij hote hai.in sb m middle class khi hota hi nhi yha pr middle class se mtlb mera ye hai ki ladkiyon se kese vo kitna kuch shaha krti hai hr roj apne sapno or family ke beech uljhhi rheti h .ap log ye nhi samjhna ki hm yha pr sirf ladkiyo ya mahilaon ke baare m bol rhe to ladko ya purusho ko galat thahra rhe h yha sirf hm apne jindagi m jo bhi dekha h abhi tk ya shaha hai usi k baare m btane aaye hai sayad kuch log meri baat ko samjhh ske .baat ye hi abhi meri age lgbhag lgbhag 27 k aaspas h lekin is umr m hmne bhut kuch dekha or shaha hai usi ko btane aaye hai. Ek ladaki jo sirf 15 varsh ki umr se gr ki jimmedari m ulajhhi huyi thi uspr us umr m jimmedari de di gyi phele gr ki fir 17 varsh m ek 1.5 ke bachhe ki jb uski dost uske age k bachhe apne career pr focus or college ka time enjoy kr rhe the tb vo gr ki jimmedari or bachhe ki jimmedari m uljhhi huyi thi , vo bhi apne sapno ko pura Krna chahati thi udna chahati thi pr use jimmedari n uski padayi se bhi dur kr diya ek trf gr sambhalna or dusari trf uski pdayi .uske shath esa huaa jese kisi n ye to kha ki tum ud to skti ho pr uske pankh chhin liye ho tb vo nadan ti kuch nhi samjhh rhi thi bs jo kha ja rha tha kr rhi thi ese krte krte usne apni jindagi ke 10 saal barbad kr diye esa nhi ki usne in saalo m kuch n kiya ho ap e sono k liye pr haal uska vhi tha vina pankho ke udna government job ke exam diye jisme 1 2 clear kiye pr physical m out ho jana fir exam m 1 2 number se rh Jana ye sb usko manshik rup se kamjori kr rhe the preshan kr rhe the depression m aa gyi thi pr ek din vhi huaa jo hr middle class family m hota h ya government job ya shadi koi dusra option hi nhi dete .pta nhi kyo ye samaj ladkiyon ke paas keval 2 option dete hai government.job ya shadi.ladako ke liye iske alava bhi option hote h private job ka khud ke business ka pr ladkiyon ko nhi dete h .mujhhe pta hai ki kuch log khenge ki aj kl to ladkiya bhi private job kr rhi h pr abhi bhi jo gaon k log h vo nhi esa krne k liye khete h agr koi ladki family se ld kr esa krti bhi h to usko caracter pr saval kr diye jaate hai . Isme sbse jyada agr koi suffer krta hai to vo madhyam vargiya ladkiya kyo ki samaj m jo ijjat ka nakab madhyam vargiya samaj m le rkhha hai unhe esa lgta hai agr unki ladki kisi or m apne career ko chunti hai to unki ijjat kharab ho jayegi is liye ya to gov.job ya shadi hi unka kaam h . jyadatar log vese to gov.job kie liye bhi nhi pdne dete sheedha shadi 12 ke baad . Or agr kuch dete bhi h to uske shath shath gr ki jimmedari or sarto pr agr job nhi to shadi .ab ap log sochoge ki akhir hm itni age tk kese bache rhe bina shadi k pr baat ye bache to hm bhi nhi meri bhi shadi ho hi jaati lekin kuch majburi meri family ki ya swarth samjhh lo agr meri shadi jaldi ekr di jaati to gr ki jimmedari or bachhe ki jimmedari vo kon uthata . Meri bhabi government job m h to unke bachhe ke liye ek chahiye dekhbhal krne k liye to vo ya to Mai ya fir meri maa agr koi ek bachhe ko dekhega to koi ek gr ko is liye . Pr baat ye ki aj se 2 saal phele shadi k liye tayyeyar ho gye the sb pr hmne mna kiya kha km se hme ek baar time to do kuch mere sone pure krne k liye to mujhe time diya gya 2 varsh pr esa time propper nhi ki hm sirf pura time apni padayi m ya coching krne di ho .lekin hm self study kr hi rhe the mera exam tha 27 july 2025 ko tbhi june m meri maa ki tabiyat kharab hoti hai or unko cancer detect huaa overy cancer 3 stage or meri duniya furi trh se bdl jaati ek trf meri maa or ek trf mera career sb khi tham sa gya ho mano kuch hai hi nhi jindagi m puri trh se khali ho chuki thi andar se na sapne yaad aate h n kuch bs raat m need ana bnd ho gyi mere koi dost bhi ese nhi hai jinse kuch bta sku bol sku ki kya chl rha hai mere dimag m ya kr Krna chahati thi m or kya ho rha jindagi m.ek trf meri maa jb unko ye pta chla to vo to bhut pareshan ho gyi 1 mhine tk unhone kisi baat nhi ki roti rheti thi . Unko in sb se nikalne ki koshish krti m . Hr time unhe ye samjhana ki vo apne ap ko kese kush rakhhe apni will power ko kese strong kre in sb pratidin unhe btati thi samjhhati thi .in sb k beech hm apne sapno ko bhul chuke the .vese apko btana chahati hu mere sapne aakhir kya hai mei khud ka business shuru Krna chahati hu or brand banana chahati hu .ab ap khoge agr business shuru Krna hai to government job kyo to hm phele hi bta chuke apko ki sirf do option hote hai hamare paas is liye socha ki phele job lekar yha se niklu fir apne business ko shuru kru is liye hr din itne saalo se sb kuch saha ki ye last exam hoga mera ab mil jayegi job pr esa huaa nhi or ho kuch or gya . Ab ap log soch rhe hoge ki hm ye sb ab kyo likh rhe kyoki abhi mujhhe yha se nikalna h ajaad hona hai apni vediyo ko todna chahate h ab fir vhi shuru huaa gr m meri shadi ko lekar baatchit ladaka dekhna sb . Pr hm shadi nhi Krna chahate kyoki jo shadi ke baad jimmedari aati hai vo hm pichhale 10 saal se utha rhe chahe gr ki ho ya bachhe ki Abhi to hme ajad hona hai apne sapno ke liye hme gutan bhari jindagi nhi jini hai hme ab nafarat ho gyi h samaj ki vyavastha se or pta nhi meri jesi kitni hi ladkiya hongi jo hr din lad rhi hongi in vyavastha se jhhuthe dikhave se sir apni jimmedari ko pura krne k liye apni bahan ya beti ko uski mrji jaane bina kisi k shath shadi kr dena ye bhi nhi sochna ki vo ye sb Krna chahati h bhi ya nhi ye sb jyada tr madhyam vargiya samaj m hota hai kyo nhi samjhte ye family baale ki unki beti ko kuch or bhi krne ka mauka diya jaye vo kr skti hai bhut kuch usme h chhamta kuch krne ki khud k Pero pr khade hone ki udane ki usko ye apahij n bnao kyo hamesha ek sahara chahiye usko apni jindagi jine k liye hm chahate hai udna hme udna hai or hme pta hai ki hm ek din asman m udenge hm chahte hai jo ye avaj dva rkhi h usko thoda uthane do is bahere samaj ke kaano m pdne do aao hm sb mil kr is m ek shath koshish kre . Aj ke liye meri khani YHI viram hoti hai kl milenge apni jindagi ke kuch or jakhmo or khani ke shath .aj ke liye alvida mere dost.meri is khani ko jyada se jyada pdana ummid hai hme ki isko ap sb apne ap se relat kr paoge paoge ki ap m bhi ek ashini chupi hogi khi n khi or ha meri is site m ashini ka mtlb bhi ek hope ya aasha jo najar aayegi apko .
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aj k liye alvida mere mitr kl fir milenge 👏
Ashini 